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A Master’s Rights to Discipline

Explain why a Master has the right to discipline a kajira. Also explain your own personal reasoning.

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As kajirae we willingly and freely choose – OF OUR OWN FREE WILL – to submit ourselves to another person, our Master. It should not be taken lightly this concept.. we FREELY choose to give up our RIGHT to CHOOSE. This sounds like sheer madness to vanilla’s, risky and a mile too far to most submissive’s. To those of us with a slaveheart, it is touched upon by various Masters, and for a while we choose to obey but there is always just less than unconditional trust. What is truly special, is once we meet that one right Man, our Love Master, in our hearts nothing less could be contemplated. By either party.

There is a whole raft of what if’s, issues, and why’s, but still we choose to obey. The mental anguish of not obeying 99 times out of 100 far, far outweighs any punishment that could be given. For me, the punishment is a blessed relief from the torment I feel inside for letting him down, for disappointing him.

Okay, so why does a Master have the right to discipline a kajira? Because when we chose to give up our will, we chose to submit to them in all things. We chose to abide by their rules whether we like them or not. We know beyond doubt – or damn well should do to beg the collar – that we are loved, cherished, nurtured and treasured. We know that to please our Masters brings us the greatest pleasure. That Master’s – GOREAN Master’s are the most loving, honourable, honest Men we have ever met. They are intelligent and quick witted… and they demand our all with such a fierce strictness that it leaves most men looking more like washed out bed linen.

It is that fierce strictness and demanding that we need. Sometimes it is hard to admit that you need someone to hold you to account. To love you that much they are prepared to raise a hand to you for your own benefit, for them to enforce a discipline on you for disobeying. But all those with slavehearts know this to be true, deep down inside. By the same token, Master’s need us to yield to them, to obey them, otherwise what are they? Less than men? They most certainly are not the Men we love and know them to be if they shy away from their responsibility. They are most certainly not the Master that we need.

Master’s have the right to discipline us if we need it, because we need it. Because they need it also. We are not talking vanilla relationships here. I am just separated from dh – that was a 17 and a half year vanilla relationship. That would never have fallen apart if he had just taken me in hand instead of “coming home after work to be ruled” as he put it. Two people wanting exactly the same thing there.. It lasted longer than most and there are a lot of happy memories I never want to forget. But I am already entering the third week of separation in the full knowledge I will NEVER accept a vanilla lifestyle again. I cannot do it – I will not be broken like that again.

Dont get me wrong, within a M/s 24/7 relationship there are plenty of vanilla moments, banal details of life that cannot and should not be avoided. But there is always underlying the knowledge that you put someone else first. You obey your Master’s rules and wishes, because to not do so brings not only punishment, but a denial of who you are. You think of your kajira and her well being, because to not do so makes you less than you are, makes you untrue to yourself.

my Master has every right to discipline me for my wrongdoings. I know it hurts him to do so as much as it hurts me to be disciplined, but we both know how much WE need it. There is too much at stake to be lax and as corney as it sounds, it is proof of their love of us. That they love us enough to hold us accountable.

The discipline I have earnt and am serving now is a prime example. I was stupid on that particular Monday night.. good reasons and desperately needed – yes, but still stupid and completely contrary to what I knew my Master would permit. (i think that is a slight understatement)
A Master’s Rights to Discipline?

my Master with his discipline saved my life on the Thursday night.. and i know very clearly He was the sole reason I had enough will power to stop myself from what my then turbulent emotions were making me think and want to do.

Want a reason why Masters have the right to discipline…. Thats as good as it gets folks.

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