I am owned and not looking for a velcro collar.

okay, so my about me section is waay out of date. i wrote it about a year ago and i read it recently. It sounds so much like an angry female it makes me cringe.

anyways, I re-wrote it… and here you have it!

Now that’s out of the way in big red italicized text

my Owner and my kinks

I am owned by a wonderful Man, AerosWraithe, whom I am blessed to call *my Master*. I identify as Gorean and as with all those who live the lifestyle, it is not a role, it is who I am. Once does not have to be into BDSM to be Gorean. However, I am also about as kinky as the wires in a telephone exchange box.

I am quite naive with some of the almost common fetishes within BDSM circles, yet as you will see from my kinks on fetlife, others I absolutely love such as anal sex, vaginal fisting, nipple clamps and pegs.

Yes, I am Gorean, get over it!

I am not one to stand on a soap box preaching about my beliefs, yet I will if I feel you are being obnoxious or flaming me purely on the basis that I identify as Gorean. I am not from disney Gor, I am from EARTH and I obey the laws of my land. It is who I am, it is the codes and values that I hold, it is my credo and I live it 24/7. I give a base level of respect to others and I will evaluate that and adjust it accordingly based on their personal actions.

I may be submissive, but that is to my Master **only**. Please do not expect me to be submissive to you, just because you call yourself a Master. You are not mine. You can expect a base level of respect from me and provided that your actions speak clearly, that respect will rise.

 History?

I had an experience of BDSM/Gor when I was 16/17 years old. For a few months I wore a training collar, yet that is what it was always going to be. I was naive, I was a child and a bad experience had me running to bury any and all submissive and kink tendencies within me. I did a bloody good job of it for 17 years or so as well.

For 17 years I lived a strictly vanilla life and it nearly killed me. I was deeply unhappy, frustrated and the ultimate bitch. I lived by a credo of *I submit to no man and no man will ever break me*…. it lasted 17 years and when I could not live that lie any longer I went searching for answers on the net. Within a few months I had met my Master and our story begins there.

my Master?

Master is my life, my world.. he is my rock in troubled waters and the reason my heart quickens. He is my twinsoul and I am blessed to have found him in this lifetime. I am truly blessed to be owned by him, to be loved by him and travel on this journey with him. I have a tendency to panic at unknowns, to worry over things I do not *know*. I dig my heels in and will not budge. There are many times since being with Master that I have been on that edge, needing to jump in order to move forward and being frozen in fear of doing so. Master has always guided me through those times, calming my fears, pushing me if needed and being ready to watch me fly or catch me when I fail…

There is no failure, just opportunities to learn and grow

No limits?

I know it is hard for most non-Gorean M/s out there to understand, but I have no limits. For Gorean kajirae, the last decision we make is who to submit to. When Master collared me, I gave up my right to choose or to make decisions. No limits doesn’t mean that there is none however, the limits are what my Master chooses to set. This goes not just for any kink play, but in all aspects of my life.

 Want to be friends?

Master expects me to have spirit. If you want to drop me a freind request on Fetlife please do so, if you want to drop me an email, even better! Please do not be surprised if Master emails you however if he has a question. He word is final and he will tollerate nothing less than full disclosure on my part.

 Oops… Have I offended you?

Currently my Master allows me to post on any threads I find interesting on Fetlife and here, He also allows me to start a thread if I wish. If you feel offended by anything I post, please take it up with him. He is my Master and he will punish me as he deems fit, if he deems fit.